Currently, I am just seeking friends. I have been lonely, and just want someone to talk to. I just got out of an eight year relationship, and I know I am NOT ready for a boyfriend and/or relationship. I need to focus on me, and fix my shattered heart and baggage before I give myself to someone else.
I grew up with three brothers, so I get along with the guys better. I just think a lot like them. I will have some female friends, but they usually think like me, and they try to avoid drama. When you mix women with men, there is always drama. A likes B, but B likes C, and C likes Z. However Z only likes older people. It just all gets complicated.
I will be friends with females, but I will drop them when they start the drama. They hold grunges, and never let anything go. . . they also don’t believe in things like “bros before hoes.” I just seem to get alone with men better as long sex is not involved. Sex really does complicate everything.
Now unto guys issues. . .
If I say that “I am not interested.” It does not mean hassle me three more times. . . No means No!
I know what I want, and if it is not you. . . I will tell you to move on. I am sick of being so nice and no one listening to me.
I’m very picky in who I want. I do not want to marry or date someone who can barely speak English. I am sick of tell men no.
Look, I hope you find who you are looking for, but chances are it is not me.
I will explain my unicorn now. . .
Your dream person. Your perfect person. The person to whom you wish to be with intimately more than anyone else. This person is characterized by the following statements and application rational.
The unicorn is a rare mythological creature:
They have healing powers and can neutralize poison:
Despite its rarity, everyone has a unicorn. But everyone’s unicorn is rare to them. This one person can sooth your soul and give you a sense of worth or completeness. Just the thought of this person can heal your innermost pain on the darkest of days. It’s the perfect person.”
Taken from http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Unicorn&defid=1650447
My unicorn is someone who loves me for my curviness, my corniness, someone who will serve me as much as I will serve them. . . someone who just gets me.
Physically. . . I want a guy with blonde or sandy brown hair that I can put my fingers through, soulful, blue eyes, a sexy smile, and someone who is fit: thin to medium built. (I am not a Nazi, that look is just the only look that instantly makes me weak in the knees, and it makes my stomach flutter with butterflies. I have dated guys with dark brown hair and brown-green eyes, and it just hasn’t been the same. Call me shallow, bitchy, whatever, I am NOT sorry that I know what I want!)
I mean my celebrity crushes. . . Jonathan Brandis, Taylor Hanson, Ryan Gosling, Leonardo DiCaprio etc ( I like Marcel Vigernon’s cooking and his eyes. I like Jared Padelacki hair, and Jensen Ackles body) There is a pattern here.
However I need to laugh. . . I need someone who supports me and my dreams and allows me to support them and their dreams. Someone who isn’t just a dreamer, but a doer. Someone who is NOT super lazy or needy or extremely sensitive. (I need a man, not a kid. I took care of man-child for eight years, I will NOT do it again!)
I want someone who will go to the doctor’s with me or hold my hand when I am hurt or sick. Someone who will let me take care of them when they are sick.
I want someone who gets along with my family and who wants me to get along with their family.
I want someone who sentimental and romantic without me reminding him. I want someone who adores me. Someone who likes me who I am, but is so encouraging that he makes me a better women just by being. This is why it’s a unicorn.